A 21-year-old probably has two roommates and scuzz in her sink: she doesn’t give a shit.Understand the different priorities each age group has and you’ll be golden.Pick up a copy of Finding The One Online and it should make a difference. But the bigger takeaway is that ALL of us are very judgmental on age. To a 42-year-old man who wants his own biological children, anything above 36 is getting into risky territory. I’m a 37 year old woman and have online dated off and on over the years. I would date a 42 year old, not a problem, but as you say, men in their 40’s are looking for women who are in the 27-34 year old bracket.
When you get the differences between chicks in their 20’s and chicks in their 30’s, you’ll do things differently.
A 31-year-old will care, notice and re-evaluate if your house is a mess.
Only difference is a 21-year-old will make her decision based purely on how fun and entertaining you are.
A 31-year-old is much more discerning and needs to see more before she’ll say ‘yes.’ When I approach a 31-year-old at a bar, I do my best to demonstrate that I have value. She’s been in the workforce long enough to have dealt with professional adults, she’s probably making a decent living and she wants a man who can match her.
Don’t fuck it up by making a rookie mistake like telling a 31-year-old you smoke pot every day. When you can tell the difference between a 21-year-old and a 31-year-old, you’ll be golden.
I’m a 42 year old single male who recently left a 5 year relationship for various reasons, but mainly because I wanted kids and she did not. He sees a hot 21-year-old sitting at one of the bar, and he sees a hot 31-year-old sitting at the other end. A 31-year-old is much harder to impress, but a 21-year-old will balk if you come on too strong. The most put-together dudes will instantly assess the landscape and know how to approach each woman in a way that jives with her sensibilities. Being good at gaming is about surveying the playing field and knowing who you’re dealing with.Two, women seem to be content in the fact that they are independent and self-sufficient and have a career, family and friends that fulfills them and don’t seem to be interested in truly finding a relationship. This gives men time to court, fall in love, travel together, move in, get engaged, and enjoy a few years of childless marriage before starting a family.I find the latter hard to believe, but find this mantra in every profile of every professional woman online. What you’re missing is that what you want has absolutely no relation to what women want. The problem is that many women from 27-34 are independent professionals just like their male peers.You can’t run “I’m gonna” game – she knows it’s bullshit.