You are not being asked simply to trust that your partner will obey your mutually established rules, but instead to trust in your mutually established love.
Trust that a casual tryst will not threaten your love.
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On Swing Towns, you can connect with locals nearby or anywhere in the world.No matter what your style of non-monogamy (open relationship, swinging, polyamory or just open minded friends...Trust that a new partner is truly an addition and not a replacement.Trust that even as a secondary or tertiary lover, you are still cared for and respected.Many take the trust experienced in monogamous relationships to be the epitome of the thing, but from another perspective, the “trust” experienced in monogamy isn’t trust exactly, but rather dutifully carrying out the terms of a treaty.
You won’t love or sleep with anyone else, and neither will I. Once possession is removed, the love between two or more people is no longer defined by what they will not do with others, but by what they actually feel and have together.Do you wait two weeks and risk the fizzle, or talk to your partner about making an exception?When there are more than two, it gets a lot more complicated. Especially in modern society where traditional dating rituals are quickly being deemed old-fashioned and uncool, and people are more inclined to just go with the flow.You met a great girl at a café and she told you she’s free this Thursday. Except…you agreed with your primary partner that Thursday was their day to ensure your quality time.But café girl goes out of town for two weeks on Friday.Rather than the absence of jealousy, non-monogamy relies on an acceptance of jealousy, with the ultimate goal of acknowledging it, unlearning it, and replacing it with compersion - a feeling of happiness in one’s self derived from the happiness of another. Jealousy, while it can be worked with and talked through, is a natural emotion that even those of us who choose to take a non-traditional path still experience. Especially when you’ve grown up in a society that equates love to possession, the work of dealing with jealousy is not easy.