You must be 18 years old or over to join, but it’s free to do so and you can express your sexual desires without fear of judgment.
We understand it might take you some time to get to the main thing you really want to talk about.
While we never judge your choices, we aim to make you aware of your own sexual health. The helpline is staffed by volunteers and we answer thousands of calls a year.Some calls last a few minutes, others can last almost an hour. When you call the helpline we do not have a caller display so we don’t see your number.We will listen while you talk through your options with you and hope that you’ll feel empowered by coming up with your own solutions.Safer sex One of the things we are committed to discussing with our callers is safer sex to prevent the spread of HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases.Then you’ll get to hear the greetings from all the other horny guys on line.
You can send messages or connect live and chat one-on-one with whoever turns you on.The speed with which you are answered can also depend on the number of volunteers available at the time of your call. We want to take your call and we’ll answer it as soon as we can. You are not able to leave a message and we aren’t able to return calls. This is part of our commitment to ensure your confidentiality.We try to aim to have more volunteers on shift in the evenings and at weekends when demand is higher. We understand how frustrating that can feel, but please be patient. Because even if we rang a number someone had left for us on a message, how could we be sure we’d be speaking to the person who’d left the message? We’re based in Islington, North London – a convenient location for many of our volunteers. Sometimes it takes a while to get to the heart of an issue. And then there are friends, parents or family members of LGBT loved ones who are looking for some independent advice and support – we welcome them all!All connections are completely private and unmonitored, so you can talk about whatever gets you off!