" She smiles back and says, "Well, I've been reading this wonderful critique of Nietzsche's work on perspectivism."After a rich and fulfilling conversation about that, and Chomsky's recent take on the Syrian conflict, you have breakfast together. There are a lot of Chinese girls out there, so of course you'll run into a ton that bore you. You could swap out the nationality of the girl with any other nationality and you'd still have a list of disadvantages based on the fact your partner doesn't push herself intellectually. Just go for a better class of woman, regardless of what is stamped on the passport.
When you wake up, you roll over and she is still there. Has all sorts of stupid beliefs (including "most foreigners are bad") and seems to think science is something bad. You're dating someone, who even if not stupid, doesn't place much value on intellectual curiosity.You smile as she wakes up and ask, "So, have you read any good books lately? if she was a girl from wherever it is you're from would you still date her with that behavior? no sense lowering to rainy standards because of a case of yellow fever. You really need to go for a girl with a more international mindset, with dreams that extend beyond having a baby and getting married. So it really increases the odds she's just going to fall into rote behavioral patterns.Russell is my favorite mathematician and author, so I asked for a short synopsis of the book.She talked about it for hours, pausing occasion to make sure I wasn't bored, telling me that most guys hate this kind of stuff and get upset when she gets excited and talks about nerdy things.Imagine going back to your home country which I'm assuming is in the West, such as America, Canada, or the UK.
Now, go into one of those bars with an abundance of neon and those plastic Budweiser banners hanging outside that say something like "Bucket of 6 Bud Light for .25!
It's always important to ask yourself "Do I like her or just like the fact it took me no effort to land her thanks to the foreigner buff? After I spent time living in China I discovered just how lucky I was when I realized that the vast majority of women I met (and that my friends described to me) were more like what you are encountering.
Only tip I can suggest is to think hard about where/how you are meeting these women and then stop doing that.
Prefaces explaining traditional superstitions with, "this is probably contrary to scientific evidence, but..."Won't teach me Chinese, but is happy I'm Learning. So, OP, you may be dating the stereotype Chinese girl, but you're not dating all of them. Maybe you've been stuck in low quality social groups and stumbling across the low hanging fruit.
Is excited about having a career in most of her 20's and isn't overeager for kids. Not jealous but teases a bit half jokingly when I hang out with other girls. Expand your circle and maybe you'll come across some more compatible attributes. She has some uninformed medical views, but she doesn't push them on me.
She started a business, is a partner in another one, and a key employee in a third. I've never had to fight so hard for a bill in my life.