These are common signs that women show when they are interested.
A woman will have a tough time hiding these signs because they are done pretty much unconsciously.
Contact a girl, and you're lucky if you get a response, much less a nice one. I thought online dating was supposed to save me time. " I wish this were an easy answer Jonathan, because your question rings true for many of the men I've worked with in the past few years, as well as friends and even dates who have asked me a similar question.
For instance, a woman who is interested and playing hard to get will still send subtle signs of flirting such as: For the most part, this will be her normal behavior around other people.
If you can watch her interact with people a few times, do it, because the more you see her interacting with people, the more you can really pinpoint what her normal everyday interactions are like.
When there's a lot of competition for a woman's attention, they have to filter whom they want to respond to right off the bat. (For more on this topic, take a peek at Hacking Ok Cupid To Your Advantage).
What many women do (including myself) is look at a person's profile before they read the message. If anything on there is a strong no for me, I might still read their email (if it's more than a, "Hey!
When she does look at you it will be with annoyance or a cold stare.
Her words will be short and her eyes will probably roll. The above examples are pretty standard across the board. If you back off from a woman who is actually interested in you, she should realize her mistake and come back towards you.However, a woman playing hard to get may try to play hard to get and send off signals that she hates you. A woman who hates you will just be relieved you are gone!Jonathan asks: "I've been trying to meet women online for the past few months with zero luck, and my friends have said similar things.As far as she’s concerned, you are a friend or acquaintance at this point.There is another possible scenario if you feel she might be playing hard to get.As an example, if I'm using Ok Cupid, I first look at the pictures (do I find this person physically attractive at all? You're cute,") although I'm more likely to either delete (if I have a lot of messages waiting), or politely say we're after different things and wish them the very best in their search.