Since he has money, he didn’t mind paying for this surprisingly costly lunch date. He knew that she was taking advantage of the situation. On this particular afternoon, he went to meet her for a quick coffee/lunch because he had some spare time. She decided that she wanted to eat at a pretty expensive restaurant.
This is a VERY important distinction that it seems that many women have difficulty making. This man is a bad investment for your future, and you are being very smart by moving on from him.
There is a huge difference between an aimless slacker who doesn’t have drive, ambition, and follow through, and a man who chooses a career with a lower financial upside.
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“I have standards; step up or step out.” – Steve Maraboli You ever meet someone, man or woman, romantic or platonic, real or fake, that makes you feel bad for having standards? Recently, I was talking to a male friend of mine who isn’t in the best—but also not the worst—situation financially.
I’m talking about those folks who take “humility” to a whole other level (i.e. We were talking about the qualities we’d like for our significant others to possess and the usual characteristics came up.
My friend is one of many men I’ve encountered who thinks a woman won’t date them because they’re not rich.
In their minds, not being wealthy means they’re “broke,” which just isn’t the case.
This is why I had to write about money and dating today. I doubt that any of my buddies care about your credit score either. Every couple would love to spend their holidays in Aruba. If you’re broke and frugal, your girlfriend with expensive taste might not find it so charming.
These are not topics you’re going to want to mention in your Tinder profile. It’s not comfortable and budgets aren’t the best type of dirty talk, but you need to get this over with.
I’ve answered a version of this question before and told a favorite anecdote of mine here.