There will be days when life is crashing down, your faith is wavering, and the only thing left will be your spouse. In this scenario, your spouse is there to pray for you, put his or her arm around you, and walk with you. It’s dangerous riding on the road to marriage without an idea of where you are going. Don’t sit someone down on the first date and interview them to make sure they meet all of the qualities. Without a Christian spouse, one of two things will happen: you will drift away from God or your spouse will become a functional god (more on this later). Without a Christian spouse you will either drift away from God or make your spouse a functional god.
Dating with a trajectory towards marriage doesn’t mean you only date one person ever. So, if you choose not to get coffee or watch a movie with the opposite sex, then whatever. The ultimate purpose of marriage is sanctification (becoming like God). It allows you to jump into marriage with a clear conscience. ____________________ I hope this discussion continues. I pray parents, church leaders, friends, and family begin to spark conversations about God’s design for dating. Devoted follower of Christ, college/young adult minister, husband to @tiffanipowell, dad to Noah and Micah, avid blogger/writer, sports fan.That would be awesome, but it’s not always realistic. So, my question is, “How does dating a non-Christian aid you in this? If you believe God is preparing you for foreign missions, is it important the person you marry shares this passion? If you love the Cowboys and your future spouse loves the Packers, is it important to work through this before marriage? I believe these principles could change lives and alter eternities. You can follow him on twitter and read more of his blogs here!He is clear on whom you should date and why you should date.When it comes to Christian dating, you live according to a different standard – God’s. There are some solid reasons why God asks us to live a certain way, and dating is no different.You see certain “role models” jumping from one dating relationship to another.
Yet God has more in store for you than just jumping from one relationship to another.Here are 10 really important principles for Christian dating. That would make God a gambler, and the Bible clearly says gambling is from the devil (only joking). Look, marriage isn’t as much about finding someone totally compatible as it is about committing to someone despites difficulties and differences. If you aren’t ready for marriage, or if you do not want to get married, you are not sinning.“The one” says you need to find the perfect person. Enter Eve, pro-creation, and marriage (not necessarily in that order). And the most intimate community on earth is the relationship you will have with your spouse. I am fearful the Christian community has irresponsibly coerced men and women into marriage through cultural pressure.Non-Christians have a different perspective on dating.You see the magazines, TV shows, and movies that tell you how you’re young, and you should date a lot of people before you get married. Church, this issue shapes our young people, friends, and family more than we could ever imagine. “Let’s just sit back and see what happens” might work in certain scenarios, but Christian dating isn’t one of them.