Take it for what it is – he’s probably not serious about dating and he’s going down his list, hoping you bite. A man who wants a healthy, mature connection will make every effort to show you he’s interested and to actually see you in person. So if he’s looking for something more than one fun night, a good man will do what he can to impress you by asking you out, and then be in your presence.
Texting is also good for a quick “had a nice time” or “sleep well” note following a nice date. I can see why even good, solid, single men love texting.
You probably know the guy who texts once in a while as a kind of check in.
I’ve seen countless women create complete fantasies and get drawn in — often before they even meet a man. With no tonality in messages, texting back and forth creates enormous opportunities to misread and misunderstand intent.
I can’t tell you how many emails I’ve received from coaching clients with a text conversation pasted in and the question: What do you think he means (aka WTF)????
If you're not able to tolerate seeing her 1-2x a week, find someone you're more compatible with.
No offense, but what did you expect dating someone that not only goes to school/work, but also has a child?
yeah been there, on my last year of college and tghe year after i was working two jobs and studying, couldnt get to see my gf asmuch, but always made sure i remind her am there through sms's and phone calls, things where abit hard but i worked it through later .
i guess it all goes back to the couple ,how mature they are,how much they love each other.anyways i would say if u like/love her ,try to squeeze ssometime, but if u keep feeling her being distant cold, then bleh who cares, find someone else.gl No offense, but what did you expect dating someone that not only goes to school/work, but also has a child?Me and a longterm ex lived about an hour from each for a couple years and only saw each other once or twice a week. Just take what you're given and do your best with what you have.We went from living 10 min from each other for years, to being over an hiur apart. Eventually she started staying with me 5x a week and I missed the old freedoms. Happened to me, together 4 months but cus of our jobs/my uni, and the distance we lived apart, we broke up. Just what women do instead of communicating their unhappiness. If i'm going to have a legit GF, it would be the kind of person I'd like to have around a lot, and seeing her once a week would be entirely unacceptable.If you want a little more, like a phone call first, it’s up to you to get off the texting treadmill and ask for what you want.