As we get older, the things we want out of life often change, and we have less time to play games and be superficial – this is a good thing!But it still helps to know about the emotional languages and occasional disconnects that come up between older men and women.
They try to steal second glances or get a girl’s attention all the time.But it’s not always a success, either because he’s not trying hard enough or because the woman’s just not interested in him.The infatuation stage of how men fall in love is also the wooing stage of love for men in the dating game.A man may appreciate a lot of women, but he doesn’t really get infatuated by all of them.Check out this interview I did for the Sixty and Me Show with dating coach Lisa Copeland. Fortunately, in some ways, there has never been a better time for women over 60 to be in the dating world.
We discuss what is different about dating after 60 and how men and women our age often want different things from life, having different emotional needs and in many ways speaking a “different language.” You might need to re-learn how to flirt with men, how to make a man feel good about himself, and how to present your most confident and alluring self in the dating world. You really cannot give up after just a few dates, that you have to relax, meet lots of guys and enjoy the process. The rise of divorce among “silver splitters” means there are more single older men – and there might be more great guys out there than you might expect at first glance, especially if you give them a chance.
You need to start now to find someone special, or perhaps consider dating younger men.
You also need to be prepared to think differently about what older men want from a dating relationship.
If he appreciates a woman, and is interested in wooing her or pursuing her, he enters into the infatuation phase.
A man may pursue a woman in various ways, but if she doesn’t accept his advances he usually forgets the girl as just another attractive girl he wanted to go out with.
Here is some advice on what you can do to be interesting to older men: If you’re getting ready to start dating after 50, be sure you know what you want from a man – what makes him “special?