So how do you know if a man is truly in love with you?
If you tell him that something makes you unhappy and he keeps doing it, this is not a sign that he’s in love with you.
A man who loves you will avoid doing things that make you unhappy and will learn the things will make you happy, and he’ll make an effort to do those things.
He wants you to be best friends with everyone he’s close to and he wants the people in his life to love you the way he does.
More than that, he includes you in his bigger life plan.
That’s not to say someone you love can’t or won’t make you feel good about yourself, but you can’t truly love people only because they make you feel good.
That’s a very selfish kind of love, a love that feeds your need to feel good in the moment, not a life-changing, deep love.
The trouble with this is that when you get caught up in trying to figure out if a man loves you, you can no longer be present in the relationship.
Instead of connecting, you are stuck in your own worried thoughts, and those thoughts produce fears and insecurities that ultimately block you from getting the love you want.
As a result, some of us might not recognize the real thing when it comes our way.
Maybe it’s because of these grand visions of love that have been implanted in our minds, but it could also be the result of being burned too many times in the past and having walls up when it comes to either giving love or being able to receive it. A guy can say he loves you and not truly mean it, and a guy can love you a lot but not be ready to say it.
When you love someone, really love someone, their happiness is your happiness.