That’s why I like apps like BBM or other similar ones …you just add them without having to give your number and can chat.
Use this as a reference point for your natural style and add a dash of spice when talking to her.Bombarding her with questions will make it feel like an interrogation.You can give a general idea about where you work and what you do, but don’t be specific about which office building you’re in. It really depends how comfortable you are with the idea of a stranger having your number (and yes they are a stranger).Give a general idea about your hangouts, but not details such as “every Tuesday I take a spinning class at X gym on X street”. I personally do not give my number out anymore unless there has been a first date and there is a potential for a second date.Note: There is a much updated and expanded version of this on my free e Book “The Gentleman’s Guide to Texting Women”. As part of the dating process, you’re responsible for keeping in touch with her and making things interesting. Texting allows you to come up with witty and enticing responses from a comfortable location.
It’s easy enough to master and with some basic guidelines, you should be a pro in no time.However, using them in every other sentence can be overkill and distracting from what you’re trying to say.Sticking to no more than one emoticon per message is usually a good idea.I’m positive whatever you have to say can wait until the next day.Also, if you’ve had a heavy night of drinking, be cautious of what you’re writing. You probably shoot the shit and ask the occasional question.Many people give their personal information and numbers out freely and I think that’s a mistake.