Think about what you say before you say it, consider their perspective, and show propriety and thoughtfulness for the effort they put into the relationship and making it special.Notice the little things they do to make everyday experiences extra special.
Show up on time, be conscientious, and show consideration for ALL people.Wishy-washy behavior, laziness, and tactlessness will add tons of tension to a relationship with an ESFJ.Say thank you, use your manners, be considerate and responsible.Don’t force them into new situations without warning, and use a good dose of common sense in your decisions.They want someone with their own goals, their own dreams, and a good sense of humor and common sense.
If you’re looking for someone who will bare their soul on the first date, you might be disappointed, but if you want someone who’s analytical, practical, and adventurous then this is your man/woman!
Related: 10 Things You Should Never Say to an ESFJISTPs need to know that you respect their independence, that you mean what you say, and that you’ll accept them for who they are without trying to change them.
Don’t pry into their personal lives, micro-manage them, or rush them into serious commitments before they’re ready.
They look for someone who has a sense of adventure, who’s willing to laugh at themselves, and who has their own goals and dreams.
ESTPs want to show you a good time; this is one of the ways they show they care.
Try to have fun and pay attention to the actions they take to show they care.