Oh my gd, I was in the same situation a few years ago with a guy I totally liked and cliked with and well, wanted to date.
We dated for a short time, than he went back to his ex, than we saw each other again and eventually he ended the sexual aspect to our “relationship” but called me all of the time and wanted to hang out and keep in touch.
In my oppinion, again in agreement with Evan, this guy does not want to string you along and easier to end things now than make it even more complicated or painful for both of you by not hinting to you that he just isnt interested. The man who is truly interested in a long-term, commited relationship will always have time for you.
No matter how real your feelings are, getting involved with someone under the age of 18 can lead to serious legal trouble.Even if you’re legally in the clear, a large age difference can undermine the long-term viability of your relationship.Shortly after our breakup tonight, he sent me a Evan, I’m OK with him not wanting to date me.To be honest, he is such an amazing guy (opposite of the loser musicians and wannabe actor types that I usually end up with) that I often wondered why he was dating me in the first place. Why would he bother texting afterward or bother suggesting that we have another conversation about things in a week? Why wouldn’t he just walk away after doing the dumping? It’s a horrible, horrible feeling, right up there with, well, being dumped.Love can be fickle, and we don’t always fall for the right people.
Sometimes a significant age gap makes a relationship impossible.And this feeling, if you can imagine it, provides the full explanation for why people act inconsistent. I’m just going to channel him right now and see what I can come up with:“Well, I really like hanging out with JD, but I get the sense that she’s starting to get attached to me. On the other hand, it’s not like I ever promised to marry her or anything. So maybe after I dump her, we’ll just stay in touch.As always, the best solution to being your own dating coach is to step outside your own shoes and put yourself in your partner’s shoes. And since I’m such an amazing guy, and I’m at a particularly busy time in my life, why would I want to tie myself down to just one person? Maybe do the occasional ‘friends with benefits’ thing. We have sex from time to time, I don’t have to commit, and I’m allowed to see other people. If she lets me get away with it, she can’t get mad at me for being a creep. Fw-300 #ya-qn-sort h2 /* Breadcrumb */ #ya-question-breadcrumb #ya-question-breadcrumb i #ya-question-breadcrumb a #bc .ya-q-full-text, .ya-q-text #ya-question-detail h1 html[lang="zh-Hant-TW"] .ya-q-full-text, html[lang="zh-Hant-TW"] .ya-q-text, html[lang="zh-Hant-HK"] .ya-q-full-text, html[lang="zh-Hant-HK"] .ya-q-text html[lang="zh-Hant-TW"] #ya-question-detail h1, html[lang="zh-Hant-HK"] #ya-question-detail h1 /* Trending Now */ /* Center Rail */ #ya-center-rail .profile-banner-default .ya-ba-title #Stencil . Bgc-lgr .tupwrap .comment-text /* Right Rail */ #Stencil . Fw-300 .qstn-title #ya-trending-questions-show-more, #ya-related-questions-show-more #ya-trending-questions-more, #ya-related-questions-more /* DMROS */ .If you want to have children, you’ll have to consider whether fertility will be an issue and whether you or your partner will be around long enough to help raise your kids.