It was pretty interesting seeing her perspective on the idea of finding love through the digital world.
So, below are tips to continue Dating-and avoid gaming: 7 Ways to Stay in the Dating Game: 1: Recognize. Meeting someone new, in a new method, will add excitement and entice you to start over. When you start dating again, don’t expect not to experience what you experienced before. But instead of red flagging the certain behavior, approach the behavior differently. Voice the reason to your partner as why you’re taking it slow, or why you’re a bit more vigilant. However, being tired of the dating game is normal, and it’s important to realize that taking a break from dating is recommended.The first thing you must recognize is that you are tired of the game. Ask more questions; don’t just push the person away. Stay in the dating game, by stepping out of the dating game, or taking a new approach to dating all together.I’ve had some really great flings and a few really memorable relationships with some really amazing women I’ve met through Bumble and Tinder.My former students too from varying walks of life have had successes in finding love on all the various online dating platforms from all the way to JSwipe.Suddenly, the solution to my annoyance became super clear: just quit dating. Even guys that I hadn’t tried being involved with became all about me. Life tends to take the backseat when you invest in dating. We say no to things because we’re waiting to hear back from him/them about possible same-day plans. To quit dating is to eliminate that passive distraction. I’m still kicking myself for the years I spent mirroring the interests of my love interests.
Here’s what happened when I did exactly that and why, if you’re in the same place as I was, you should consider doing the same. You’re lying if you say that dating doesn’t make you paranoid AF. I have no idea what to do with that kind of power because trust me, I’m not someone who usually has dudes on deck. You’ll be surprised how much free time you have, and also how easy it is to say ‘yes’ to life. Quitting dating made me realize that I’m “into” a lot of crap that I claimed to like. So of course, I became a Queen fan (warning, unpopular opinion here) even though I hated Queen. You get tired of seeing the same scenario play out.So, you find yourself on the verge of quitting dating all together.She eventually gave up on it and simply just vented to me about her frustrations about not being able to just have simple and spontaneous conversations like the one we were having and just organically meeting a guy.I could empathize with her situation though for myself and even my students included, in the world of online dating its the polar opposite for men.There’s nothing wrong with taking time for you to just stop dating.