It’s not just conversation that makes this a turn off either. Very few couples are interracial, and of those that progress to marriage, the overwhelming majority are actually between a Japanese man and a foreign women (source).
If a foreigner guy’s language doesn’t progress with the relationship, he’ll have to rely on her progressively for understanding all sorts of issues: visas, taxes, healthcare, education, your haircut, ordering your food, her holding his hand to cross the street… Of Japanese women who get married, 1.3% marry a foreigner (source).
Usually, these girls speak Chinglish (no offense, but most of them probably don't have a higher education background), because, hey, if they are smart enough in the first place, they wouldn't need a man as a stepping stone. They don't necessary like foreigners more than Taiwanese.
The third kind of girls just happen to date foreigners. These girls, typically have a better understanding of the world and cultural differences.They probably have family living around the world, and they got to travel and experience different cultures in person.I'm not saying the foreign guys got more money, it's more like they are more willing to spend money on a date.Taiwanese guys on the other hand, they can be a bit stingy, but they are planing long term.Short term, yes, you can bask in the beautiful neon rays of love hotels, but long term, the best you can do is to minimize the other red flags in this article.
While not all Japanese girls will make a final judgment on dating a foreigner based on their income level, some certainly will.
Coupled with recent shitshows by certain foreigners (Julien Blanc, anyone? Pointing to your condom stash when she mentions the “last train.” It can be simplified as bad manners, cultural ignorance, and poor social skills.
), and the public perception of “charai foreigners” is definitely at its pinnacle. The basic reality is that most foreigners only temporarily live in Japan, whether it’s for a week or a few years, there’s almost always an exit date. While you may be bound to accidentally coming across KY as a newcomer or tourist to Japan, you’ll still need to pick up on subtle and environmental cues to make sure you aren’t “that guy.” epic book (discount code: tokyonightowl) dives into the above issues and offers Japanese dating advice.
They know that in the back of their minds, a relationship with a foreign guy might not last, and eventually, they might have to find a nice Taiwanese boy and get married.
I'd say you are more than likely to find these two types of girls in the clubs and bars.
We came up with four types of women that most foreign guys date in Taiwan.