A question arises as to how they met each other before their marriage? They had probably met at work and dated each other.In the past Muslims did not date because of arranged marriages.
Hello All, Asslam Alaikum my Akhi and Uhkti, i plan to write about Different Islamic Topics that may Affect us All in some way, if you have Any questions feel free to email me or google ask m and ill awnser them in a blog.i Wil post every 2 days insh Allah so i have ample time to do the reaserch!This was not there in North America before the Second World War.The women used to wear long chaste dresses and their dating did not involve the close intimacy that we see today.The choice of a marriage partner is one of the most important decisions a person will make in his or her lifetime.
It should be taken as seriously as any other major decision in life - with prayer, careful investigation, and family involvement.However im not Sheikh and this is all my Personal Oppinions right here but i honestly think it is important you have such dates to get to know eachother before marrige. So inshallah i have made some sort of Impression on you and that you read it All. All of you shall repent to GOD, O you believers, that you may succeed.Qur'an, There are clear verses in the Quran against the natural results of dating; from the seemingly innocent kiss to the more obvious. However, it is not allowed in Islam to take a non-mahram person or persons of the opposite gender as a very close friend. In the Qur’an, Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala mentioned that good men and women are those who marry, do not have fornicating relationships and do not have “paramours” (“akhdan” see al-Nisa’ ; al-Ma’idah 5:5).According to the Qur'anic commands unmarried men and women should maintain their chastity until marriage. Is it wrong for two people of the opposite sex to be very good friends at school and outside of school? Muzammil Siddiqui answers " Muslims should have good elations with all people, males as well as females. “Akhdan” are “sweethearts” or for a man a “mistress” and for a woman a “lover”.