It’s something many single people wonder, myself included.
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Traditionally, lots of us are taught this without even realizing it. I'd like to think that I'm the kind of person who values personality over aesthetics.
But the reality was that I didn't really feel like I could date.
It wasn't that I was fat, or horribly concerned with how a boy would perceive that fatness.
I started to see our size difference as funny and cute. So in the course of these three years, here are some things I've heard and been asked.
These days, I love being the big spoon in the relationship and feeling like I am Paddy's teddy bear. This one tends to come from women who are actually quite strong, feminist role models and personal inspirations of my own.
It was more that I was taught that a woman (especially a fuller-figured and tall woman) must only date a man who was even more fuller-figured and taller than she was.