So here are mine (and maybe yours) to help you identify some of the dating landmines you might be ignoring.In JRR Tolkien’s epic trilogy, we’re introduced to a character named Smeagol.“She broke into your home, has threatened ”“Yeah,” my old roommate mutters sheepishly, “You were right about that military/crazy thing.”“Oh, this has nothing to with the military….” I say as I imagine a young woman with a vendetta breaking down a door and stealing my clothes.
This will quickly devolve into her spending every waking second wondering why you haven’t called or texted, berating you because your lack of time together shows you “and it’s poisoning not just her, but you too.
If a woman doesn’t have friends outside of the time she spends with you, it can be a potential warning that you might be headed towards dating Smeagol.
”But the question to that answer, Meagan Prins), so I reaped some of what I sowed.
However, I’m a firm believer the best advice comes from the people who’ve had life kick the trash out of them due to their poor mistakes.
It didn’t just extend to women, but many young men as well.
The problem wasn’t that the world was out to get them.
If you’ve ever seen a house of cards put together, you know that something as light as a feather can quickly make the stacked deck of cards crumble.
In the same respect, I dated a few women whose entire (perceived) world would crumble when an expectation wasn’t met, or an innocent comment became Shiva, Destroyer of Worlds.
The truth is that if everything circles around their needs and wants the relationship is selfishly one-sided, and no matter how carefully you step, sometimes life’s gusts of wind can take out the House of Cards.
or keep up even a small bit with the hip-hop world, you know that Suge Knight is characterized as an evil rap mogul who offers you a sweet deal only to lure you into a contract you desperately want to escape.
His girl runs his life and anytime he makes a slight error she jumps down his throat.